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Dr. Gottman, author of the New York Times bestseller The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, and his wife and collaborator, clinical psychologist Julie Schwartz Gottman, PhD, have pored over the research along with bestselling coauthors Douglas Abrams and Rachel Carlton Abrams, MD. Together, they have written this definitive guide for men, providing answers on everything from how to approach a woman and build a connection with her to how to truly satisfy her in bed and know when the relationship is on the right track. The Man's Guide to Women is a must-have playbook for how to play--and win--the game of love.
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Download and read online Love and Loss in PDF and EPUB This book illuminates the structure and focus of thinking about love and loss and sheds light on a wide range of psychological issues. It will be essentail for bereavement professioanls as well as students of psychology, psychiatry, and sociology. (Midwest).
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